General Questions
Q: What is Naughty Nytes NYC?
A: Naughty Nytes NYC is a premier adult lifestyle brand offering immersive events, international travel experiences, and a vibrant community for open-minded individuals and couples. We create safe, inclusive spaces for sexual exploration, connection, and celebration.
Q: Who can attend your events?
A: Our events are open to all adults 21+ who are respectful, open-minded, and committed to consent and community guidelines. We welcome singles, couples, and groups of all genders, orientations, and experience levels.
Q: Are your events LGBTQ+ friendly?
A: Absolutely! We celebrate diversity and inclusivity. All genders, sexual orientations, and relationship styles are welcome in our community.
Q: I’m new to the lifestyle. Is this for me?
A: Yes! We have many first-timers at our events. Our meet & greets are perfect for beginners, and our staff is trained to help newcomers feel comfortable. You’re never obligated to participate in anything—observation is always an option.
Q: Do I need to bring a partner?
A: Not at all! Solo attendees are welcome at most of our events. Check individual event descriptions for any partner requirements.
Q: Why is there different pricing for men, women, and couples?
A: Our pricing structure helps maintain gender balance and creates a comfortable atmosphere for all attendees. We’re working toward more inclusive, non-gendered pricing options.
Q: What’s your refund policy?
A: Event tickets are non-refundable but transferable on a case-by-case basis. Travel deposits and packages have specific cancellation policies outlined at booking. Contact us directly for special circumstances.
Q: Do you offer early bird discounts?
A: Yes! Most events offer early bird pricing. Subscribe to our mailing list or join our Discord for exclusive discount codes.
Safety & Vetting
Q: How do you ensure safety at events?
A: Safety is our top priority. We:
Require age verification and vetting for all attendees
Have trained security and guardians on-site
Enforce strict consent policies
Provide free STI/STD testing at select events (via Project Stay)
Maintain a zero-tolerance policy for harassment or boundary violations
Q: What is your vetting process?
A: All attendees must complete our vetting form, which includes age verification and a questionnaire about consent, boundaries, and community values. This helps us maintain a safe, respectful environment.
Q: What if someone makes me uncomfortable?
A: Speak to any staff member immediately. We have guardians and security trained to handle consent violations and uncomfortable situations. Your safety and comfort are non-negotiable.
Q: Are drugs allowed at events?
A: Some events are 420-friendly (clearly marked). However, hard drugs and excessive alcohol consumption are prohibited. We want everyone to be present, safe, and able to consent.
Event Details
Q: What should I wear?
A: Dress codes vary by event. Play parties often encourage sexy, creative attire (lingerie, leather, latex, fetish wear). Meet & greets are more casual. Check your event confirmation for specific guidelines.
Q: What should I bring?
A: Essentials include:
Valid ID
Safer sex supplies (condoms, lube, dental dams)
Personal hygiene items
Comfortable shoes
Change of clothes
Open mind and respectful attitude
Q: Is there food and drinks?
A: Most play parties include an open bar. Some events are BYOB or have a cash bar for premium drinks. We don’t typically provide food, but snacks are sometimes available. Eat before you arrive!
Q: Can I take photos or videos?
A: NO. Photography and videography are strictly prohibited at our events unless explicitly stated otherwise (like content creation mixers). Discretion and privacy are paramount.
Q: What if I just want to watch?
A: Totally fine! You’re never obligated to participate. Many attendees enjoy observing, especially their first time. Respect others’ boundaries, and they’ll respect yours.
Play Parties Specific
Q: What happens at a play party?
A: Play parties feature multiple themed rooms, play spaces, socializing areas, open bar, DJ, games, and opportunities for consensual adult play. You control your experience—participate as much or as little as you like.
Q: Do I have to play with others?
A: Nope! You can play with your partner only, play solo, or just socialize and observe. It’s entirely up to you.
Q: How does consent work?
A: Consent is explicit, enthusiastic, and ongoing. Always ask before touching anyone. “No” means no, and you never need to explain or justify your boundaries. Staff will remove anyone who violates consent.
Q: What are “guardians”?
A: Guardians are trained staff members who monitor play spaces, ensure consent is being respected, and assist with any questions or concerns. They’re there to keep everyone safe.
Travel Experiences
Q: What’s included in travel packages?
A: Most packages include:
Accommodations (shared or private options)
Ground transportation
Exclusive parties and experiences
Group activities and excursions
Some meals (varies by trip)
Flights are typically NOT included unless specified.
Q: Can I room alone?
A: Yes! Single occupancy options are available for most trips at an additional cost.
Q: What if I need to cancel my trip?
A: Deposits are generally non-refundable, but we handle cancellations on a case-by-case basis. Travel insurance is highly recommended.
Q: Do I need a passport?
A: Yes, for all international trips. Make sure your passport is valid for at least 6 months beyond your travel dates.
Q: Will there be other solo travelers?
A: Absolutely! Many of our travelers come solo and form amazing connections. You’ll never feel alone.
Community & Membership
Q: What is the Discord community?
A: Our Discord is a private, members-only space for lifestyle enthusiasts to connect, chat, share experiences, and get early access to events. We host virtual hangouts, movie nights, and Q&As.
Q: How do I stay updated on events?
A: Follow us on Instagram (@n.nytesnycls), join our Discord, and subscribe to our email list. We announce new events weekly!
Contact & Support
Q: How do I contact you?
A: Reach us at join@nzurient.com or call 201-905-0332. You can also DM us on Instagram (@n.nytesnycls).
Q: I have a question not listed here. Who do I ask?
A: Contact us directly! We’re happy to answer any questions and help you feel prepared and excited for your first experience.
Q: Can I host a private event with Naughty Nytes?
A: Yes! We offer private event planning for birthdays, anniversaries, bachelor/bachelorette parties, and more. Contact us for custom packages.
Q: Do you offer group discounts?
A: Yes! Groups of 4+ may qualify for discounts on select events. Contact us for details.
